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if we ever talk to eachother, address me by my name, my personally given name, not my family name, a nickname would also be ok.
this is out of respect to me, you're addressing me, not my family.
So am I a ms, mrs, mr or dr? I am me, not any of those titles, they are not a show of respect. (a hint that shows they have nothing to do with respect is that there is no "unmarried man"-title, you're just a mister no matter what)
Any situation that would require me to call somebody by a title is a situation that requires and demands strict hierarchy (situations I loathe as they are in the long run ruining themselfs) such as the military. I'm trying to figure out any other situation that the title would be prefered to the given name...
The only other one would be parentship/family, where a child would most often call their family by their title, mum/dad, grandpa/grandma. It is a situation where the title is neither required nor demanded and has nothing to do with hierarchy and what that entails, it is more an affection-title made for simplicity for children and good-feel for the parents.
All of this results in that I will never call you, whomever you might be, by your family name nor your title. It is out of respect that I see you as who are YOU are, the individual you.